Happy Belated Father's Day, Abi~

Two most important men in my life...

WARNING: This entry is entirely dedicated to my husband, so if you feel you can't stand it, i purely understand.. hehe... :P

My Dear Hubby, we're sorry for this late wish...but nway, Happy Belated Father's Day to you, ur first ever Father's Day celebration, being a father urself!!

My dear Aqeef, here area few things u shud know about ur Abah:

1. He accepted me as who I am, willing to marry me, even though he didn't know me at all (ok, we met in August 2008, got engaged end of March 2009, and we were married early June 2009. ever know who else as "gelojoh" as we are honey??) :D

Muka gelojoh?? haha!

2. When i was sick with fever, cough and dizziness in the early months of our marriage life, it was he who insisted me to do the pregnancy test, because he was so sure that i am pregnant. I was not too sure myself, and it took me 3 sets of pregnancy tests, and two clinic visits, to ensure his instinct was right. And obviously, he is right. When the doctor confirmed it, he immediately hugged and kissed the dumbfounded me..(i was shocked, stars-trucked, u name it. it was a complex emotion, happy, anxiety, scared, confused, etc)

3. He will do his routine journey every Friday and Monday, the JB-KL-JB long drive...Just to be with me, to be with us..the two person he loved most, in his life...can you imagine his sacrifices, baby?

4. It was the fasting month, when i was beginning to feel the morning (or in our case, the evening sickness). I can't stand rice at all, and my only source of carb would be speghetti, vermicelli, or any wheat products (breads, cookies, etc). and your Abah was very understanding, he would buy all sorts of things that would keep me healthy, and sane..

5. When we reached our second trimester, he was so sure that you'll be a boy. As always, he was so sure of himself, even my gyne has to agree with him. See Aqeef, your Abah has a sixth sense. so please be a good boy or else he'll know your mischief in seconds! :)

6. I was hospitalized in out third trimester due to my previous accident and broken pelvic history. Your Abah was sooo worried, he came back to KL just to take care of me in the hospital. He will feed me, get everything that i need, whatever i want, and he's willing to sleep on the floor just to be with me..

7. When it was nearly the time for you to see this world, i called your Abah at his office, saying that i started to feel the labour pain. He immediately rushed back to KL, took me to the hospital (errr...we did divert a lil' bit baby. We went for dinner at Chili's KLCC, then to the hospital) and he stayed with me throughout the night in the labour room (let's skip the sleeping and the snoring part ya..we understand that ur tired Abah.. :D)

8. When it was about half an hour before we were able to hold you, i was facing the most excruciating pain in my life. I never endure anything like that before. I was crying, moaning, holding your Abah (i could break him arm, mind you) and i clung to his collar for support.And he supported me throughout the whole process, reminding me of the breathing exercise we used to practice everyday, giving me the Etonox gas (for pain relief), holding my hands, sweeping out tears from my eyes and sweats from my forehead.

9. When i finally managed to get you out through the window, he was able to multitask, for the first time! :) He able to hold my hand with his lef hand, hold my right feet with his body, while holding a camera and capturing video of your entrance in this world with his right arm. One super cool dad, aren't he Aqeef? :P

Newborn Aqeef in your Abah's arms

10. He cried when he hold you for the first time. He whispered Azan and Iqamah in your ears. That's the second time he really cried in front of me (ok, i saw him cried when we were married, right after the Akad ceremony, but this second time, i was knocked out. It still counts, right?)

11. He took care of you while i was attending my post-delivery pain.He took leaves when you were hospitalized in Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) due to your high jaundice. He will miss you terribly when you were away from him.

12. He will call almost every 4 hours, to check on you on weekdays, and on weekends, he's the one who will bath u, attend u, play with u, sleep with u, do almost everything with u, which sometimes makes me jealous. but he will still remember not to neglect me..

13. He took us to his house in JB, so that we can be near him. He was so happy when we were there, i can see his eyes glowing every time he reaches home. He will play with you, sing songs until you fall asleep in his arms, took us to malls, treat us for lunches, etc without caring how much he spent for us.

Abah in action! ngee~

14. He was soooo sad when he has to bring us back to KL. He even proposed for me to quit my job, and stay with him forever (with u, of course our handsome son) An offer, which is soooo tempting, i feel i want to accept it, but i can't...it's such a heartbreaking to see him leaving, that makes me still considering early retirement now...we'll see baby...we'll see...

15. And finally, the reason he's the best father, the best husband, the most important man in our lives, is because he loves us, endlessly....full stop.

Well Abah, both of us loves you too, with all our hearts. :*