Tadi dlm Wanita Hari Ini, dorg ade bincangkan pasal tajuk "Wanita Kurang Ghairah Bila Sudah Berumur". All the panelist kata, wanita kena jaga penampilan diri, kena jaga hati suami, kena makan jamu, exercise utk jaga badan, supaya suami tidak mencari yg lain.
Then, kalau lelaki, sang suami pula, mcm mana? mereka juga perlu menjaga penampilan diri, kena jaga hati isteri, kena exercise utk jaga badan, supaya isteri seronok melayan suami..tidak begitu??
i wonder sometimes, why in the early days of a marriage, everything seems so sweet..so tender...so loving...tp bila dah 5 tahun, 10 tahun, (the list continues) kenapa that spark masa baru kawen tu dah tiada?? kenapa boleh padam? bukankah kita berkahwin dengan pilihan hati sendiri, dengan org yg sama kita kahwini 5, 10 tahun yg lepas?? Jadi mengapa ada perubahan??
Well, some people might say, people changed, tru time...yes, agreed. Appearances change, but does the behavior, personality change??
Actually, for me, Its up to us to maintain the spark, the love, the feelings...US = HUSBAND + WIFE. Bukan sebelah pihak saja.
Apakah maknanya perkahwinan yg bahagia, tp sang suami pulang ke rumah hanya berdiam diri, sang isteri di bawah bumbung yg sama, diam menyepi menonton tv, tanpa ada real conversation among them?? is that perkahwinan yg bahagia to u??
It's only my two cents. And i'm writing based from my observations, my experiences. Sorry if i offended anybody. tak berniat begitu pn.
As for me, i will try as hard as i can, to maintain the spark, the feeling, the love between me & Abi...walaupn apa yg terjadi, insyaAllah...
Nabi SAW pernah berpesan, jangan katakan diri kamu seorg yg bersabar, sehinggalah kamu mendirikan rumah tangga.
SOOOO TRUE!!!!
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